You are meant to thrive and have all that you desire. You are meant to be a powerhouse and game changer. You are meant to leave a legacy, an imprint. You are meant to serve others on a deep level, to show them it is possible to live abundantly. You are meant for greatness!  

Then why do you run? 

You are not meant to play small. You are meant to up-level. To unravel all your layers and reveal to the world your Divine nature. But you cannot do that if you continue to hide in your shadows.  

The only way to peel back all the layers and have a clear understanding of who you are is through your relationship with others. Especially your intimate relationships. Your personal relationships are just practice for what is coming, that EPIC relationship you desire.  

But the reason it has not happened for you yet, you are not ready at a soul level. Consciously, you desire it. Consciously, you are ready but at a soul level you are not. If you were, you’d have it already.  

Not that it won’t happen, I promise you it will! But you need to get out of your own way first. I wish I could tell you that relationships are magical and blissful all the time. The reality is they are not. Life is better in a relationship don’t get me wrong. However, relationships are designed to heal and grow us from the inside out. Your partner is your mirror, there to reveal everything about yourself that still needs healing and that is not always easy.  

My own relationship challenges me. Pushes me. Forces me to show up for myself in ways I can’t even describe. The reason our relationship is so powerful and dynamic is because every day we show up. Every single day we answer the calling to be better. Yes, there are days I don’t want to. Yes, there are days I question our fitness. But those days remind me that relationships are a practice. When those feelings come up, it reminds me to look within and ask myself what I am really afraid of.  

Understanding the tools that keep me from running, like I am used to, keeps my partner and I connected on the most spiritual level.